Quiz: Is Mediation Right For Us?

Not a priority; I’m prepared for a traditional legal battle. A low priority; I’m more focused on other issues. Neutral; I’m unsure which path is better. Very important; I’d like to avoid conflict if possible. Top priority; Protecting my family’s peace is my main goal.

Not Important: I don't expect or need us to have a relationship. Somewhat Important: It would be nice, but it isn't a requirement. Very Important: We have a shared history (or children) and need to stay civil. Essential: Maintaining a respectful co-parenting or personal relationship is vital.

No: I am currently focused on proving my point or "winning." I'm Not Sure: I want fairness, but I'm feeling defensive right now. Yes: I am ready to be reasonable to get this resolved and move on. Absolutely: I just want what is fair and equitable for both of us.

No: I think they are focused only on what is best for themselves. Maybe: They are protective of themselves, but might be open to it. Likely: They seem neutral or open to a fair conversation. Yes: I believe they truly want a settlement that is fair to both of us.

A Judge: I'd rather have a court official decide based on the law. I'm Not Sure: I'm undecided on who I trust more with these choices. Us (With Guidance): My spouse and I should decide, with expert help. Only Us: I want total control over the terms of our future.

Doesn't Help: Cost is not a major concern for me right now. Helps a Little: I like the idea, but I'm focused on other things. Helps a Lot: It makes me feel much more comfortable moving forward. It’s Essential: Avoiding tens of thousands in legal fees is a top priority.

Not Really: I am more focused on the legal process than the emotional dynamic. Somewhat: It’s a nice benefit, but I’m still weighing my options. Yes: This dual background makes me feel much more comfortable. Absolutely: Having an expert who understands both the law and family dynamics is exactly what we need.

No: I am still worried about protecting my legal standing. I'm Not Sure: I need to understand more about how my rights are protected. Yes: Knowing I can still hire a lawyer later if this doesn't work provides peace of mind. Definitely: This makes trying mediation feel like a "no-risk" first step for us.

No: I feel like I definitely need a lawyer by my side at all times. I'm Not Sure: I'm worried about the power balance during the conversation. Yes: I am comfortable knowing that I maintain total control over what I agree to. Very Comfortable: I prefer a direct conversation over a long battle between two lawyers.

Financial Control: Avoiding tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees. Family Peace: Protecting our children and our future relationship from conflict. Personal Autonomy: Keeping control over our decisions instead of a judge deciding for us. Efficiency: Reaching a settlement in a calm, focused, and predictable environment.